Need advice ladies

Need advice do you think I’m being too harsh..

So I fell pregnant, me and my partner we’re over the moon, I know he has problems... bipolar etc but he’s on medication to help stable his moods and previously he got arrested because he got drunk and he started making threats towards people in the pub, bare in mind this isn’t the first time.. so last week I went to the hospital as I was spotting and we found out that I may have a blighted ovum I’ve been going through this for a week on my own as he’s been working which he could of took time off, so Friday I get a call saying I’m at my mates having a drink his medication and alcohol do not mix he becomes aggressive not towards me but towards people, police anyone.. I told him if you want to drink it’s your choice he invited me round to his mates but I never went, so he got a taxi around mine to pick me up to go out bare in mind ladies I’m due to pass this gestational sac at anytime and I know it will be a lot of blood he never even come to see me after work, I went to the scan with my mum on the 15th may he only decided to turn up to my door Friday plus he only really came to my door because he wanted £200 from me to go on the piss but tried bragging his way saying he wanted to take me out, suspiciousness tell me he wanted to take me out and go back to his mates to get out his face and what happens when he gets pissed? He gets arrested... he’s on suspended sentence anyhow from previous, I said no he then put his foot in the door I said move your foot, he did.. He then refused to stay home with me and that night we got into an argument and he stayed at his friends house drinking all night knowing I could have started bleeding. He was not there to comfort me he left me to go to work when he could’ve took the time off ( boss offered) he never came to the scan with me

He then text me because we had an argument never talk to him again ( isnt the first) knowing what I’m going through right now and losing his child what should I do?

His family say it’s his bipolar he went off on one and got pissed because he scared to acknowledge there’s a problem with you and his baby. He’s then told his mum he loves me and wants to start a fresh... I’ve got so pissed off just lately as hes not been there for me at all only by text.. and I said things I wish I could take back.. but he’s treating me like I’m nobody and a moment ago I was pregnant we were planning our future moving places etc... ( we don’t live together as landlord passed away and left his properties to his children.. so it left us out I agreed to move back into my mums and he his mums until we can afford to buy. But now this is all going on I don’t know what to do, he hasn’t messaged me for two days either.. do you ladies think it’s the stress of what’s going on? Or him just being plain fucking selfish? 🤔