I’m 21 and have only been intimate with 2 guys. The first one was literally only 1 time, and the second one is my boyfriend of 6 years. In all the time that we’ve been having sex, I’m not really sure if I’ve had orgasms or not? Today he used a dildo on me, and definitely had one.

I’m talking like an outer body experience!

But now, he questioned me about if he gives me orgasms and now I’m not so sure. It’s one of those things where I don’t know what they’re supposed to feel like, so I don’t really know?

The only way I could try to explain it to him was like when you’re trying a new recipe that you’ve never had and it’s really good, but you’re not sure if it’s supposed to taste that way.

I don’t know. I just basically need to know what they feel like. Please help. 😂