Hey ladies

So, I have a best friend. I have known him for 4 years. We’ve always talked about not sleeping with friends. We’ve also talked about him not wanting a relationship. In the last 6 months we’ve been ha going out a lot together. I helped him furnish his new place, we have joint custody of a stuffed creature we “rescued” from ikea. I have keys to his house. We have performed together, so we spend many hours alone rehearsing. I am starting to feel a different vibe from him, and I am always wanting to hang out with him. We can spend the whole day together and then WhatsApp for another hour after I go home. We watch the same movies, think pretty similarly. I am extremely attracted to his brain, to who he is but not to him physically. We are great together but because we can go without speaking for a week and no stress and then we can spend the next week all day together. We are great together but don’t see us together. I don’t know what I am asking... I’m just confused about my feelings and his!