Little worried .. overreacting?

Emily

Okay so when I had my daughter in 2013, she was big (was 9lbs at 39 weeks)- so I was forced into a c section.. 5 years later, and I’m trying hardest to be healthy & active so I don’t have a “big” baby again, just because I really want a vbac & doc wont let me if she’s too big.. at my 20 week scan, my baby’s weight was already 14 oz.. and I read it’s supposed to be 10oz. Just curious everyone else’s baby’s weight at the 20 week scan. Thanks!