Am I wrong? *Possible Trigger Warning*

So a little background: My husband and I have been together 4 years, married for 2. He knows my entire past. I was raped a few years ago and have a daughter because of it. My husband is EXTREMELY pro life and I am pro choice to an extent (ie rape, incest but not so much for other reasons like teenagers going out and having unprotected sex knowing the consequences) and this is something we have agreed we will always disagree on. When I was raped and found out I was pregnant I made an appointment to go get an abortion. I personally couldn't do it though and feel I made the best decision by keeping my daughter. He knows this and every thing about it. So fast forward to today we were having a conversation about some things and this subject was brought up (about BC and Planned Parenthood) and he said people are scum and pieces of shit for wanting to get rid of a life. I was like you will never understand. So we argued and I was like do you not realize that you just called me a piece of shit and scum? He was like swearing he didn't and I was like yes you did when you made that statement about it. He said he didn't because I chose life and I said he did because I wanted to get rid of the baby after I found out I was pregnant after being raped even though I chose life I was still in your blanket statement. Am I wrong for being upset and hurt? Am I wrong I believe that he did or in reality he didn't call me that as well? He wanted to rephrase it after I brought up that I was in there to "those who got rid of a life" I'm like no you said what you meant earlier and that's what you meant you can't just rephrase after I brought up a valid point. Am I wrong? I've tried talking to him about it, but he just keeps telling me that he didn't call me that and I feel like he did.