baby weight

Jaime

So I had my baby boy almost 4 weeks ago. He was my 4th child and finding it very hard to lose the baby weight from him. my husband keeps telling me that I'm worrying about it too much and I'll eventually lose it but this is very hard for me. I gained 65lbs this pregnancy putting me just over 200lbs. I feel like a squishy jiggly mess. anybody have any tips on where to even start looking weight and toning??