I feel like no matter how hard I work or how hard I try I cannot get my husband to understand that when I’m at work I’m constantly doing for others (in home healthcare) so when I come home it would be nice since he is stay at home dad/disabled vet that he could tidy up the house and at least have dishes and laundry done... he has been working out again and I’m very envious of that because of the hours and shifts I have to ensure we have what we need... I cannot get to the gym or if I can my body is sooooo tired that I literally pass out the second I can!!! I made the comment the other night “I am so fat I wish I could change my hours and workout and do a little more for myself...” and he replied well it doesn’t matter at least you have me on your arm!!” It just made me feel belittled and I’m so stressed and becoming more unhappy as time goes by... help is it me doing something wrong or am I crazy for feeling the way that I’ve been feeling?? Sigh...