I have to share my struggle! When my husband and I got married, I started birth control. We were having pretty regular awesome sex, but as the months progressed it became less and less, and I started to have trouble getting to orgasm. Sex wasn't really enjoyable, and I could only orgasm from oral and I had to be very relaxed and also very concentrated lol. My husbands self esteem was low- he thought I wasn't attracted to him anymore but I just didn't have any sex drive. We had been married just over two years when I went off birth control and got pregnant. I didn't have any sex drive during pregnancy either, I was disappointed. I was hoping I would be the kind of pregant person that was horny all the time 😂 Anyways, our beautiful son was born and of course sex continued to take a back seat. I decided to get the paragaurd copper IUD because it is hormone free and I've had a sneaking suspicion that birth control has been killing my sex drive. I was right! Once my body started to heal from giving birth I started feeling in the mood more, though I could still only orgasm from oral sex. But TODAYYYYY after nearly THREE YEARS 😱😱😱 I ORGASMED DURING INTERCOURSE 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 it was amazing. Better than I remember 😂 I had to share my vagina victory with you all