Hi all

So hubby and I have been together for 10 years, married 2 years and we have two children together-3 and 1 years old.

My husband has an older brother who is married with two children- 5 and 3.

I noticed a while ago my in laws can be very obvious with the way they are with both of their son and treat them very differently.

They have just booked a cruise for a years time to the Caribbean- Mother and father in law and brother in law and family to celebrate his brothers birthday and their dad’s retirement (my husband worked with his dad nearly 10 years)... we would have loved to have gone along but weren’t even asked. My husband is actually quite upset about this. It was also announced they were going at my sons 3rd birthday and it was all they talked about when they popped over for cake and tea! My son is now asking if we are going on holiday with his grandparents and cousins. Not quite sure how to approach this!