It really makes me question if he "really" does love me.

The tattoo I plan on getting is really small and somewhere unnoticeable and its in memory of my grandparents (mom's side) and my mom also plans getting one too of them. She wants us to go together for our first tattoos

I told my boyfriend because I don't want to keep secrets from him

He scolds me and tells me he'll look at me "gross" and "not the same" if i get that small tattoo WITH MY MOM & he says he'll breakup with me but rn he also told me "lets just breakup right now so we dont hurt eachother later"

He doesn't have any tattoos but I remember one time he considered getting one together but now he hates it with a passion

It really hurts me and I start thinking like crazy if he's only been interested of my physical appearance and not so much my personality and mindset.

I don't know who the hell he think he is controlling my life

Its not going on his skin

Theres so many things i can't do cause he'll disapprove

Its just insane someone will stop loving you after 3 years just cause of some ink ..

Help