So I've been recovering from surgery all week and I've done a pretty good job of cleaning up after myself during this. I'm still not supposed to be doing much for at least another week but I cant freaking take it. My house has been coming down around me. I've torn my stitches twice trying to clean this pigsty and I'm doing everything not to lose it on my husband. I even made it easy on him. I asked him to just get premade meals or takeout all week for me. Granted the bra, the purse, the drawing and the comforter are all me as I cant climb into bed right now. I have to clean up after him as he drops things where he stands every single day. He hasnt kept up with the animals' training regimens so they've been driving me up the wall and he had a 4 day weekend where I repeatedly asked him to help me clean this place up where he just sighed in annoyance in response and threw away some of his trash. Just a few days before the surgery he told me that I must not do alot all day and that I'm very lazy. He hasnt done the finances, the doctors appointments and scheduling, he hasnt done the grocery shopping, he hasnt cleaned the guinea pig's cage he hasnt even closed the closet doors so the cat got inside and peed on all of my nice dresses. I'm so frustrated and now that I'm able to be up and walk around for extended periods of time before I'm exhausted and cramping he expects me to clean this mess. I'm so frustrated! I told him he doesnt appreciated me and he agreed and apologized but still has yet to clean his mess. I dont even know where to start. It's like all of the responsibilities that he used to take care of are out the window. Idk what to do. You know what he did instead of cleaning? He bought me Sims 4 as an apology. I appreciate the game but it's like hes deaf. I want him to help me and care for the house for a bit not buy me a game like that makes up for the fact that I cant even recover in peace! He just didnt want to apply the effort of actually cleaning. If he had just picked up after himself he wouldnt need to do so much. I guess I'll be doing this for the next two days and I'll have to spend a week to catch up on our finances and schedule. NOT FUN. Sorry for the rant I just needed to vent and my fellow housewives probably feel my pain. I mean I serve him hand and foot when he is sick and I do everything for him and still manage to take care of all of my responsibilities. Last time he was sick I was working 60 hour weeks too and still running the house without his help. UGH!

P.S. The stove was worse but I cleared it so I could boil some eggs.