Different parent styles

Spring Momma 🐞🐝💐🌿 • 31| Married 💍 SAHM of two 👧🏻💕 👶🏻💙

I love my husband he has been so helpful and loving through the time he has been home with us since i gave birth to our son 7 weeks ago. I had our daughter ( age 3)on a routine and he’s been kinda doing all the routines his own way with her while I’m recovering from my c-section and tending to our son. He goes back to work in July and I’m dreading it, ill have the kids by myself and our daughter is in a routine that has started some tough habits that will have to be broken. He gives her only juice all day, with me she only hot juice once and water or milk through the day. He would let her stay up until 11pm or later, no matter what time she goes down she wakes up at 6am. Ive lovingly reminded him that when he goes back to work that sleep schedule will not be convenient when he goes back to work and has a toddler wide awake. Just feeling a little frustrated because he isn’t thinking about the habits he is creating with our daughter, i don’t like to remind him because then he says i attack him. I foresee alot of tantrums trying to get our daughter back on track once its all back on me.