Bedtime?

My lo is 5 weeks old and our sleeping arrangement is something i still haven’t figured out so I dread the end of the day every day.... just curious how you guys did things with your new born... did they sleep in their own room? In your room but there own bed? In your bed? Did you let them fuss themselves to sleep or get them to sleep then put them in bed? I just have no idea what I’m doing and would really love to know what worked best for you with your babies! And please don’t make rude comments to anyone who gives advice! We’ve all read the risk factors when it come to newborns sleeping... we get it so please don’t judge what worked for another mom... I do want to here anything that you tried and don’t want to here the negative comments that come with it.