Terrified about carrying after miscarriage

Cristi

I just had a miscarriage last month (April) and don’t feel like I’ve really recovered yet! I’m 41 and my boyfriend and I had talked about kids and were considering “trying” but hadn’t really done anything when we got pregnant the first time. My god he was ssssoooooo excited and then we lost the baby at 8 weeks. The natural miscarriage dragged on and on and I feel like I just got done! I haven’t even been back to the obgyn to confirm everything passed ok and I started having symptoms and tested positive this morning. Don’t get me wrong, I’m ecstatic!!! We promised each other to try again as soon as possible, but what if this one isn’t viable either? I’m terrified and thrilled!! I’d love to hear some success stories of carrying so soon after miscarriage!! Advice for calming the jitters? Questions to ask my obgyn tomorrow? Baby glue? Anything?