So it’s been hard wrapping my mind around what is happening in my life. My husband of 11 yrs with whom i have 4 kids (my youngest with a heart condition) with cheated on me with a co-worker. I found emails, phone calls, texts, you name it... i took my kids and left him. He is being very hostile and its been so hard with the kids in the middle of it all (they are 8,6,3 and 2). I am trying to be strong in front of them, but when i am alone i am a mess, so i have been trying to fill my time, with work, school, friends, church, and yesterday i went on a date... its was so relaxing and freeing to be on a date with someone who didn’t put me down, talked to me like i was a person, and a beautiful person at that.... i have been trying to take care of myself but i am overweight and i dont think i am attractive at all... but people keep telling me otherwise... i have never been surrounded by more love than i have been these last couple of weeks. I am just wanting to know if anyone else has dealt with a hostile ex and how you dealt with that... oh and i do have lawyers involved (our settlement meeting is on this Wednesday!!)