Soooo a few months ago I broke up with this guy I was with for just about 2 years.. in our relationship he was extremely controlling, manipulative and even physically abusive at times ( would bite me all over during sex extremely hard to the point i literally thought he was going to take a chunk out of me and would leave deep bruises that wouldn’t go away for weeks ( picture inserted of my inner thigh ), would pretend to go to kiss me but EVERYTIME he would just bite my nose or face super hard to the point I wouldn’t let him kiss me anymore, would pinch me really hard, spank me really hard, would grab my vagina lips or ram his fingers up my vagina super hard randomly when I’d be on the couch or something wearing clothes..) he got away with the physical abuse for so long cause he would play it off like he was just bugging me or something and not to take it so seriously (mentally abusive) he enjoyed putting me through pain. Don’t get me wrong im down for a little bit of rough sex but he would always take it WAY TOO FAR. that wasn’t even half of what he would do. he would always dirty talk to me about threesomes with other girls, and don’t get me wrong it’s KINDA hot cause I’ve always had a bit of a thing for girls but never taken action on it... but it was to the point where everytime we had sex he would talk about it to the point I’d get pissed off... then off course he would shut me down and make me feel like I was over reacting... he even convinced me to get tinder and look for girls to have threesomes with which I was kinda interested in cause I had never had one before but he became obsessed with finding a girl for us... funny thing is I wasn’t allowed to be the one messaging them.. he was pretending to be me and would talk to them on MY Snapchat, anyway he finds us a girl after a month or so maybe and im not really 100% sure I want to do this because I’m not really a jealous person but I can’t say it will make me feel good seeing my boyfriend fucking another girl.. but of course he manipulates me into doing it, says it will make us stronger, that I need to explore my sexuality, that we’re only young for so long and you only live once.. so I finally give in.. whatever it was fine, didn’t really like the bitch cause she called me dumb but it was kinda too late by then I guess (I really should have just ended our relationship there, said you can have him and told him to go fuck himself but hindsight is 20/20) anyway there’s more I could say about everything that went down but 🤷🏼‍♀️ after our first threesome he was still obsessed with talking to girls trying to find us another... it didn’t bother me too much cause he was talking as me not himself but he would never really let me see the conversations or pictures they were sending them.. anyway there was SO MUCH MORE that was fucked up that he would do but I don’t have the time nor energy to explain everything... I end up going on a cruise and cheating on him... I come home and tell him what I did and that I didn’t want to be with him anymore... I LATER FIND OUT that he was pretending to be me on tinder/Snapchat (which I knew) BUT SAYING I WAS HIS BEST FRIEND not girlfriend and TRYING TO HOOK HIM UP WITH GIRLS CAUSE HE LIKE SOCIALLY AWKWARD OR SOMETHING!! I found out from this girl he made block while we were together cause she was a “crazy old friend” who tried to add me... I unblock her when I break up with him and ask her why he would want her blocked.. and she’s like what do you mean?? YOU SET SAM AND I UP!.... SAM ISNT EVEN HIS FUCKING NAME!!! Hey

Sorry for the long rant but I feel like I should publicly warn girls about this man on social media or something cause he is a repeat offender ps these bruises are weeks old