So I’ll be 29 next week, I already have a 4 year old. I got pregnant with her after a month of trying. Now at 29 we’re trying again. It’s been 9 months of non stop trying everything and I’m still not pregnant. This is all so very new to me. I asked by obgyn and he seems so relaxed like it’s not a big deal. I’m thinking of seeking fertility help, the doctor says to wait a year. I think a year is a log time. Am I being crazy? Should I wait or seek help?

My husband thinks we should seek help already and I do too. Is this normal?