visitors after birth


What is your opinion on not wanting visitors, including family, at the hospital until the day after giving birth. My husband thinks I'm totally unreasonable for not wanting anyone and thinks it's not fair to family. He doesnt take into consideration how I'll feel and how I want to spend time with the baby first. Last time people were in the second I had the baby and stayed until 11 PM! I didnt even get to hold my son but maybe 2 minutes the whole night.


He finally realized how shitty he is being.