Masterbation

I’m struggling. I’ve confessed to friends but feel so defeated. I’ve practically given up. I had been celibate for 8 +years , and this past year I had sex with my boyfriend. We gave in. I told my pastor and we’ve been holding off , but now I’m struggling with masterbation. I’m so tired and just need prayer. I do it almost daily:( I really can’t overcome this alone. Please pray that God gives me a person to help me.