Perfect father

I wish my husband was sweet to our daughters! He loves them so much I know but I wish he was sweet and they were so spoiled by him as in being daddy’s princesses! I always get jealous when I see other dads being super sweet especially with girls but my husband isn’t that type. He’s mean shows tough love. He spoils them by buying them everything but I’m talking about spoiling them with emotions I want my girls to grow up always sitting on daddy’s lap and always getting their way. Idk I didn’t have that growing up my dad was tough love, I mean I turned out ok and love my dad so much I just wanted something different for my girls. Am I being weird? Am I asking for something that’s not real?

He’s a great person/dad/husband he plays with them, cooks for-them, does crafts with them. I have no other complaints we all have a wonderful relationship it’s just I see other people and wonder??!!!