So maybe I should start this,post with a warning; I have anxiety and depression and my father has been so abusive all my life, but maybe that makes no difference to you.

Ive been dating this guy (M) for about 4 months and he is perfection. About a week ago my dad "caught" me and M laying on my bed with M's hand on my hip. Now this isn't unusual but this time my dad decided to tell my mom that he caught us "making out and doing inappropriate things." This wouldnt upset me if it ended here but now M isn't allowed in my room. Big deal, right? Well then we were hanging out in the front living room and my dad came in and told us to stop laying next to each other. I then said something about it which ended up with my mom pulling me into the garage. Today M told me that my dad had walked by as no one was around and said "laying with her and doing things like that isn't cool." When M told me this I went and confronted my parents. I told them what my dad said and my mom was upset with him but said he had a right. My dad basicly said he was obligated to say something. Apparently his point wasn't getting across even though he had said he didn't like us laying together a few minutes earlier to both of us to which M said "yes, sir." Now my mom and dad want to have an "adult conversation" with me and M. I told them that i wanted to see my therapist first and that my dad was to apologize to M. What do you guys think? I need suggestions. Btw I'm 16 and he is 17.