So my man really wants my to try anal and so do I so we've been kind of easing into it. But every time he puts a finger inside of me, I instantly feel like I have to poop. And the farther he puts his finger in the more I feel like I have to poop. I make sure to keep relaxed and it honestly doesn't hurt I'm just so paranoid I'll poop on my man 😂 and the feeling of having to poop doesn't make it enjoyable. any tips on how to avoid this feeling?