I’m 41 and 7 weeks pregnant, I just found out and it was a huge surprise as I’m on birth control and this wasn’t supposed to happen.

My husband is not happy and is basically telling me to get an abortion or he will leave me. I am devastated as I will not get one unless I find out something is wrong through all my testing.

Looks like after 11 years of marriage and 20+ years together doesn’t mean shit and I’m going to be a single mother of a 3 year old and a newborn. 😢

He is also saying I lied to him because I always said 1 and done which I did but now this miracle has happened and stuff changes, what do you ladies think?