so, i went to the doctors for a confirmation of pregnancy and first of all it took literally 4EVER not because i was nervous but they literally took ALL DAY. no biggy right? so i get a urine test done and they didn't tell me my results yet. no issue. so FINALLY the doctor comes in and she asked me when my last period was and everything of that nature and we had a little chat about me going to school to be an OBGYN also. so then i asked when i'd be able to have an ultrasound to really determine how far i am. then her reply to that was "you seem really happy about this". i was SHOOK.BITCH YOU TRIED IT! i told her i can't change the hands of time so i own up to what i did and take care of my child. she then proceeds to say "but didn't you say going to medical school is so long, a baby would just make it longer" and i said a baby is a blessing. not a reason to stop reaching for your dreams. i was pissed! then she said they don't do ultrasounds until 20 weeks.also because i'm plus sized it would be better. i walked outta there and i'm changing my doctor! she made me feel so uncomfortable with her old ass! i will report her. you should never make your patient feel as though they are dumb for bringing a beautiful life into this world. especially if it brings you money! also i've NEVER heard of an ultrasound starting at 20 weeks. what kinda bullshit! there could be so many complications in the womb at that point which could have been prevented. what do y'all think?