I need advice

My boyfriend is 25. I’m 24. We have a 6 month old daughter. Today we talked about marriage and I learned he doesn’t want to get married. He was married once before we met. She was awful to him. Never worked or helped provide when they were struggling. Was emotionally abusive to him. So I understand why he wouldn’t want to marry again even though he says he knows I’m never going to be like that. I need advice on how to handle this heartbreak. I’m not going to try and talk him into it, or change his mind. He knows what he wants. But as every girl does, I’ve dreamed of my wedding day. The chance to wear my mother’s dress, have my little girl be our flower girl, etc. I’ve planned it out, I’ve got several Pinterest boards. But now they’re all useless. I just need advice on how to cope. It breaks my heart, but I would never push him into something he doesn’t want.