Boy Troubles

Tammy

So me and this guy are dating and my friends know about it and said they are rlly happy for me. Well I guess its like an unofficial thing since he hasn’t properly asked me out yet but we act like a couple and all rules apply as tho we are a couple. But so many of my friends have suddenly started liking him now and they are my main priority and I never want to hurt them but they keep flirting with him and being all handys and it’s getting to me. He feels uncomfortable about it once t gets to a certain stage but most of the time hes oblivious to the fact they want him. I always put my friends before me and give up things so they can be happy cause that’s important to me and I love them to bits but is it wrong for me to kinda want this to myself? I know we aren’t officially yet but it still hurts like hell to see my friends do this and my guy is clueless about it all and also doesn’t want to hurt them. I want the stress of feeling like I’m competing to go away but idk how to without making an scene or causing unnecessary drama. How do I fix this without hurting my friends or anyone else?