37 weeks 4 days & have a scheduled c-section

So I am in my last trimester and the doctors are saying my baby girl is too big to be pushed. She is almost 9 pounds at 37 weeks. They said she has a high risk for shoulder dystocia and getting stuck because with my son he got stuck during labor as well expect I was able to push him out. I don’t know if I want the c-section at all but I know it’s the safer option so I scheduled it. I went to the doctor Sunday because of contractions and they said I was 1cm dilated and the whole time they’re we’re advocating for vaginal delivery even after reading my file. Has anyone been in the same position?