long story short, when me and my boyfriend broke up his mate was there for me when i felt like shit anyway he ended up liking me.. i got back with my boyfriend we were on and off but when we wasn’t together after a while i ended up sleeping with his friend several times we were like best mates basically! he wanted more and i kept saying i wasn’t ready because i still loved my ex.. anyway the past few months when i told him that i wanted to be back with my ex he kept blackmailing me saying he was gonna tell my boyfriend everything anyway.. he’s started talking to this girl but a couple weeks ago when i was at my friends he rang me because he was arguing with the girl he was talking to and i got mentioned because he’s a psycho anyway the girls alright with me she told me it had nothing to do with me anyway.. but he messages me out of the blue saying why have i been talking shit about him this that and whatever and i haven’t at all! i think he just does it to try and get anyway he can to talk to me! he knows i’m with my boyfriend and i’m happy but i’m so scared he will end up telling everyone and my boyfriend. this probably makes me sound really bad but i didn’t intend on anything happening! we were all mates.. me and my ex only got back together in february after not being together for 6 months! rumours went around that i was with this guy etc but i denied it all to my boyfriend because we never was.. i was too scared to tell him the truth but it’s been playing on my mind.. any other girls been in this situation? i need advice!

i know you will all say tell your boyfriend but i really can’t! i love him too much to let him go again.. the boy is a psycho and a liar! which i found out not that long ago! why can’t he just leave me alone..