I see certain red flags in my boyfriend of 2 months. He will say things like “if you cheat on me i’ll beat the **** out of whoever it is” and violent stuff like that and i usually pay for everything we do which is super annoying and his family is very crude and which is not like me at all and makes me extremely uncomfortable but i do love him so much and he is very sweet to me so i’m just unsure of what to do or if i’m making it more of a big deal than what it is. Any advice would be helpful thank you !!