69 question/concern. UPDATE!!!

hey, so my man and I have done oral stuff but no butt stuff. we're not into that. But, I kinda have an issue. So my man wanted to try to 69 it but I wanted to take it slow and just give head at separate times to see if we like it. So I'm 100% fine with blow jobs and done it a lot with him. so on the 2 days he tried to do it to me he said I was having discharge and that. I check myself in the bathroom after being embarrassed and there is nothing both times... so I ask him how he really feels about it and says he doesn't want to give head if I have discharge. boy I don't. To me if feels better to be aten out than fingered all the time.. what should I do or talk to him about? I just want the best for our needs.. Update: It's my boyfriend and I's 1year anniversary today. So i get over there and we get in bed with shirts and undies on and just cuddle together. Well, a couple weeks ago I asked what he wanted bc he has two options and I had 1. And he was acting all weird. So eventually was like "can you let me do something and you'll see what I'm doing." long story short he basically said he wanted to give it another shot and was actually okay with it. sooo ya girl is going to get eaten out more!!