Fiancé not interested in sex... lonely


Hi everyone!

My fiancé and I have been together for 2 years and at the beginning of our relationship we couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. Once we moved in the decline began. He stopped wanting to be kinky and the frequency of sex started to slow down.

Now that we’ve hit the 2 year mark and purchased a house I feel as lonely as ever. He rarely initiates sex and when he does (like every 3-4 weeks) there’s no foreplay involved and it hurts me in the beginning. If I try to initiate everything he will tell me that I’m tickling him or gives me another excuse. I’ve tried asking him what he likes and to tell me but he never does.

He also doesn’t masturbate and doesn’t like hand jobs or oral.

My sex drive is high so I masturbate maybe every other day or so. I know love can be shown other ways than sex but I feel so lonely. I don’t feel like I should have to masturbate in my own home while he’s there.

Thoughts, tips, advice? 😓