My partners can’t make me cum the way my toys do.

I don’t know if this is a normal thing or not but whenever I’m with someone, I still finish, but not in the same way that I do when I use my vibrator and dildo. Whenever I masturbate, it’s explosive. I’m much louder and satisfied after. When I’m with someone, I do cum but it’s not mind blowing or anything. Some partners are better than others, but no one has been able to make me orgasm the way I can make myself orgasm. Does anyone else have this problem? What can I do to make sex with my partners more mind blowing for me?