This is me now......I have been trying to do different things to spice up my relationship But I am self conscious. In the beginning of our relationship I was a size 6/8 and curvy with an athletic build, BUT life after college was quite different. Now I am a size 12 and alot more heavy. I have dimples and my skin isnt tight and I have a tummy pooch. Before I would send sexy pictures to my husband now I feel self conscious about pictures or even some sexual acts because I feel like it isnt flattering or sexy or I feel my body moving. We are trying for a baby so my hubby wants to try new things But I am most definately not motivated at all. HELP