So I dated this guy for 4 months. We were best friends that developed a crush on each other. We were each other’s first relationship. We never went any further than kissing. Every single day he’d humiliate me and make fun of me and “play hit” me all the time. He said he was joking and that he didn’t mean it and I don’t know why I let him continue teasing me. I stopped bringing a lunch bc he would take my lunch and eat it all. He claimed that he wanted to go out, but whenever I suggested things we could do, he always said no or we’ll talk later or he was busy. Every time we hung out, it was always on his time and I had to give up certain events to hang out with him. He was always super touchy with other girls and I asked him to not do that as much and he got mad at me. At the time I thought so little of these things and I thought that we were a different couple and that things would eventually get better. I was wrong. He decided to break up with me through Snapchat and told me that I was too obsessive and that I didn’t make him my #1 priority and that I never cared. He then blamed him being horny on me, and told people that I was sex crazy. He then told me to not wait for him or obsess over him bc we would never get back together. Turns out he made those things up bc he stopped liking me weeks before he broke up with me and started liking someone else. Instead of breaking up with me then, he wanted to guarantee that he could get with this other girl and still kept dating me as a backup. He got with this girl a week and a half after we broke up. I realized how manipulative he was and selfish. I never thought I would be that girl that stayed with a guy even though everyone clearly pointed out that he was playing me. I’m so mad at myself for not standing up for myself and letting him get away with all the stuff he did/said to me. I know I’m only 17 and that I never loved him, but it hurt a lot to know that I was used to get some of his firsts out of the way so he could impress this other girl.