My boss is really uptight control freak?

I work closely with a CEO and she’s slowly starting to reveal herself to me in some ways i notice she is a control freak which I totally get if you’re running a business.

But sometimes the way she acts is unprofessional and cussed a lot.

It’s only my 5th day working and she’s putting so much on me already and expects me to drive 30-40 min to meet with her when i thought this was a at home position? I get that I just started but she said we would be working from home this week and she forgot and made it sound like I wasn’t listening...

Sigh. Why is the job force difficult these days? And I’m not getting paid well