WTF is wrong with me ?

Question

I don't orgasm when im having sex is something wrong with me ? And even though I dont feel a thing I still moan so I don't have him questioning 😕 but I want to have fun and feel good at the same time. Should I try the Viagra pill or just let it come naturally ?

Answer

Communicate with him. Maybe try different positions or even clitoral stimulation. Lots of women find it difficult to orgasm via penetration. Nothing is wrong with you. ☺️

Answer

It's common. Try new things like playing with your clit. Even if you do it yourself while he is penetrating you or oral and toys are super useful. You may need to find out what you like prior by yourself. Guys are usually more clueless when it comes to the clit. 😂

Answer

Since you asked for advice, here it is:  first off, don’t lead him on into thinking he’s pleasing you by moaning if you’re not really having a good time.  You’re doing both of you a disservice and it’s ultimately rather unfair. In contrast what I would suggest is that you guide him to the spot you want him to stimulate and show him what you like.  If you don’t know what you like then start masturbating and get familiar with your body and what you like so you can have an orgasm and help show him how to do this for you together too.  If you’re feeling comfortable enough do a show for him by masturbating for him so not only does he get to watch you get off (guys are visual and this is super hot) but he’ll learn what you like.  It’s really hard for most women to have an orgasm from penetration alone and he and you should understand this.  Usually clitoral stimulation is needed in some form or fashion and every woman is different. What works for you isn’t the same as what works for me for example.  But in that spirit we all tend to have some success with toys and appliances to help us along so consider a vibrator or dildo and remember to use lube.  Good luck and have fun!

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