If your boyfriend told you that when he was 16 and was going through a hard time ( death in the family) and sexted a guy would you judge him or is it irrelevant now? ( now he is 21)

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it's irrelevant grow up

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I really don't think that a death in the family will bring about homosexual urges.  Even so, he doesn't have to justify it.

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Unless you’re homophobic I don’t think there’d ever be an issue.

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Why is it your business what he did if y’all weren’t together? He was grieving, don’t kick him while he’s down. Unless you’re a homophobic asshole, this shouldn’t even be a question.

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Grow up. that was years ago. should he judge you for things you did when you were 16?

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I wouldn't judge him for it, but we'd need to talk about it. Id want to know why it he sexted another man and where he stands sexual attraction to men. I say this because my boyfriend has told me he's straight so sexting another man would make me wonder if he's supressing his true sexuality. It very well just could've been experimentation or maybe he's bisexual and neither of those would be an issue. But if he's actually gay or thinks he might be then I'd want to know now and not after 20 years of marriage. I wouldn't judge him for his sexuality, but dating a gay man really isn't something I want to do. Besides, that's something I think a person should know about themselves anyways and shouldn't feel like they need to hide it.

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Seriously? Grow up. Death in the family or not people experiment and do different shit. It was years ago why the hell do you care? I fucked a girl when I was 16. Guess who doesn’t care? My husband.

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See his heart, not his past. Everyone has a past. What’s important is what he wants and what he does now.

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If your not into having a man that’s gay then leave him. I wouldn’t put up with it

If your boyfriend told you that when he was 16 and was going through a hard time ( death in the family) and sexted a guy would you judge him or is it irrelevant now? ( now he is 21)

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