Unwanted advice & opinions 😡

I just don't get it.

Why is it as soon as you are pregnant people think it's an automatic opening for them to tell you what they think is best for you and your baby?

Yes I'm a first time mom, yes I don't really know what to expect, but that's why I have my own family and doctor for.

Left work on Friday in sobbing tears because of gummy candies that I bought two and a half weeks ago. I've had them my desk just to nibble on two or three so I don't binge, and I got the whole "this is why your sides hurt, it's because you're hurting the baby, the baby doesn't want it"

And that was coming from someone who's never been pregnant or who's has kids!

Why do people feel the need to open their mouths at all? I feel like I'm doing a good job, I'm doing the best I can. I thought this stuff happens after you have the kid not while you're pregnant. I'm not doing drugs or alcohol, I'm eating 3 damn gummies that my doctor said it's okay to do!