So you mommas who have a child with someone who lives in a different state what do you do with custody? My husband and I are both in military so we move around and my sons father after three years all of a sudden wants to see him more and have him more ( he would only see him when I came up twice a year) he’s basically blaming me for everything whatever but I’m truing to stay out of court so I’m willing to work with him but I’m unsure of what to do. My son barely knows him and he has his daycare down here we can’t just cancel and come back too and he has a speech therapist he sees once a week I can’t just stop everything and all his work he’s put in. Advice please