PSA: make sure your man is careful with your lady bits down under!!

So, my bofriend came down this past Thursday and stayed till early this morning (monday) and we had a VERY fun weekend.😉😉(I'm pretty sure we used almost his whole pack of condoms lol.) He really seems to enjoy getting me off, but I noticed early Sunday that when he rubbed my clit(he is fairly rough, but has no trouble finding it😉)and it hurt A LOT; So much that I had to pry his hand off when he fingered me.(which I would never do) so late last night I looked and somehow he/I tore both sides of my clitoral hood by my clitorus; and my clit was still very swollen and tender an hour after our fun. I've done a teeny bit of research and as far as I know it should heal on its own but to take care my wiping with baby wipes. AND ALWAYS USE LUBE!