Frustrated? Sad? Disappointed?

Idk what I should feel....

My boyfriend and I are both minors(17 years old) we’ve been in a relationship for a year.. the conflict lies between our parents.. they absolutely hate each other! They know we like each other but don’t approve of us being together.. so we are dating secretly.

So today my boyfriend told me about his brother talking about me and this conversation really upset me when he repeated the conversation.

The brother started talking about my family and I.. he started saying about how my mom talks without thinking and it drives his family crazy.. about how we don’t have status.. like they know the mayor, they have good relationships with them.. a bunch of people know them and they don’t know us. His brother just kept saying about how I am not good for him and kept on talking about different levels, like they are on a “medium status” and we are a “low status” that’s all I could think about for the afternoon, when I got home I decided to text him about it and he keeps saying do I want to break up? He needs an answer by tonight...

I haven’t stopped feeling anything for him, i still love him veryy veryy much but that conversation just deeply affected me, should i break up or find a solution and work this relationship out.

We already started planning after we graduate, when we are going to live together and everything but this conversation just really really affected me negatively.

I would really appreciate some feedback..