Selfish?

Shay • Step-Mommy to 1 and mommy to L 💙

So my husband says I am being a little selfish about this and maybe I am. I am due any day now with my first child, a boy. My husband has a daughter who will be 9 soon (the day after my birthday) and his ex wife’s family has been weird about the baby the whole time. (They are in our lives because of my stepdaughter, NOT because I want them to be) Anyways, my husband and daughter have the same birth DAY. Like both born the 15 of the month for example. She’s in July and he’s in August. All of our birthdays are within 31 days of each other. I really want my son to be born on a specific day because we would have corresponding birthdays (for example: 6/16, 7/17, 8/18). Of course his ex wife’s family wants me to have him on the same day as him and his daughter so “she feels special too” 🙄🙄🙄 I have said I will literally hold my legs shut that day because this baby has nothing to do with her. Am I being a bitch? If so, honestly, I don’t give a fuck 😂😂😂😂😂