Selfish?

Shay โ€ข Step-Mommy to 1 and mommy to Logan ๐Ÿ’™

So my husband says I am being a little selfish about this and maybe I am. I am due any day now with my first child, a boy. My husband has a daughter who will be 9 soon (the day after my birthday) and his ex wifeโ€™s family has been weird about the baby the whole time. (They are in our lives because of my stepdaughter, NOT because I want them to be) Anyways, my husband and daughter have the same birth DAY. Like both born the 15 of the month for example. Sheโ€™s in July and heโ€™s in August. All of our birthdays are within 31 days of each other. I really want my son to be born on a specific day because we would have corresponding birthdays (for example: 6/16, 7/17, 8/18). Of course his ex wifeโ€™s family wants me to have him on the same day as him and his daughter so โ€œshe feels special tooโ€ ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ I have said I will literally hold my legs shut that day because this baby has nothing to do with her. Am I being a bitch? If so, honestly, I donโ€™t give a fuck ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚