He said “what do you do for me” and I became silent

My guy and I have been arguing because he’s been texting and seeing other girls.. we were arguing and he said that I was only with him to use him. Of course I started crying because I have my own job, own car and pay my own bills. Yea he buys me things but that’s on him, i love him for him and not what he offers. We spoil each other as you should when in a relationship... anywayS when he said “what do you do for me” i didn’t know what to say.

Of course i cook, clean and sexually please him but what else are us ladies supposed to bring to the table... ADVICE PLEAse

I’m pretty sure our relationship is over because I can no longer trust him but I need answers so that I can be a better woman in the future..

Thanks ladies