Not “trying” anymore?

I only was TTC for 1 month so far, but I’m an all or none kind of person so I got waaaaaay to intense and wrapped up. My husband and I decided to stop actively trying and just leave it up to God.

I was trying forever to find a career-type job and finally found find one by chance in a place where I wasn’t looking, and I feel the best blessings come when we’re prepared but not too hyper-focused on a goal... and I think we should put that intos practice with TTC as much as we have in the rest of our lives (career, place to live, etc.).

When I get to planning I REALLY plan and I think my obsession was stressing my poor hubby out though he hasn’t admitted to it. I still have some ovulations tests and found out that the cramping I’ve been feeling is most likely ovulation cramping... which is exciting because we BD yesterday... but even just one month was putting my mindset into utilitarian mode when it came to sex.

We’re just gonna enjoy ourselves and get busy when we want to, and if we’re blessed with a baby, then that’s just how it was supposed to be. But we can always try more intensely later, and I’m looking forward to some of this good quality time with hubby in the meantime 😊

Has anyone else done this?