My boyfriend of 3 and a half years has told me the thought of marriage terrifies him. He used to say he was going to marry me all the time, yet now we’ve lived together for 3 years he’s not so sure ?! He says he wants me to be happy, but he’s known from the start I want marriage and babies! Am I being unreasonable for expecting to be closer to an engagement rather than further away?! And would you stay? He’s a nice guy but I’m getting older (I’m 32 soon) and I don’t want the chance of babies to pass me by!