So my MIL as been adiment on us having a gender reveal party since the day she found out which is okay. Then she explained she wanted her and my mom to know and not me or my husband and I said no. So she trued for a few weeks to convince me but I stuck with no, so she was kind of mad to start with. We set up our anatomy scan for the 29th and she was planning on doing the gender reveal at our campgrounds since we all go for the 24th of July weekend. Then I find out at least 4 of my nieces and nephews couldnt be there and it would be hard for my mom, dad, and sister to make it. So after talking to my MIL she very angrily said she can do it the next weekend when everyone could come. Am I being selfish to want all of my nieces and nephews to be there or should it be for most of the adults? I find the kids reactions so far to be funner then the adults. In the end she was mad and said "I guess I have no say so in nothing" and she has nothing planned so Idk so Idk what the big deal is.

She is also mad because my mom and sister wanted to do my baby shower and they chose a building to rent instead of my MIL house, which is a double wide trailer.

Sorry about the rant but I had to put it somewhere so I wouldn't explode.