My boyfriend works all the time. Sometimes I think working and providing money is his “love language”.. while he is the sole provider for our family, I have a good job as well. However, his job doesn’t let him be flexible as mine with time off and leaving early for appointments. I have gone to every appointment alone (which doesn’t bother me). He wants to be there but can’t because of work. I’m just wondering if it’s “normal” for moms to attend appointments alone or should I pressure him more to take time off work to attend?