So, this story may be kinda long but it’s okay. Anyways let’s get to it. I’m just annoyed and aggravated.

Let’s rewind to 2012 when I had my first daughter. The dad and I were young and dumb, and I guess in love is what you could call it. He moved from where he was to live with me the whole time I was pregnant. He went to every appointment. Everything in life was going great and I hoped for it to stay that way. Unfortunately, everything that glitters isn’t gold.

The day came for me to have our daughter and it went smoothly. No complications and she was beautiful. When we were finally moved to our room to be alone the nurse came in with ALL that paperwork. One of the papers is of course, the AOP papers. She explained them to us and I knew for sure he was her dad. He was the only person I was with and I even was tracking my period at the time. Wasn’t a doubt in my mind. He couldn’t sign them at first because you have to have some form of I.D and he had to leave to go home and get his wallet. He comes back and idk what happened from the time he left to the time he got back. He was asking me why was she so “white” (I’m white & he’s AA) and why doesn’t she look a certain way. I explained to him that most babies are born to either look really “white” or have that blue/purple tone to them. I told him if he wanted a DNA test then go ahead and get one I didn’t care. Just so it would comfort him knowing for sure she is his. He turned it down and signed all the papers, stating he IS the father.

Well now fast forward to a couple months after she was born and we separated because, surprise, he cheated on me. I found out because when I went to my 6 week check up I had an STD. Didn’t get it by myself. He claimed he didn’t cheat but how else did I get it??? So, we go on with our lives and he half ass see’s her or buys her anything. I ended up finally deciding to put him on child support in May of 2014. First court date he showed up to they decided he was to pay $375 and have supervised visits. He is crazy is why I made it that way.

Now, my child is 5 almost 6 and the last time he physically saw her was when she was about to turn 1. His reasoning behind that is because I should have never put him on CS and blah blah blah. I didn’t let him see her also because I found out he was doing/selling drugs and was in and out of jail. I don’t want my daughter around that kind of life.

I believe in 2014 is when he also had another child with a girl I went to school with. She was like 16 when she got pregnant and he was like 20. This girl has been nothing but hell from day 1. She believes anything he says and says anything to me that will try and make me feel like shit. I’m 23 and have a husband and other children I worry about. My husband has been there for my daughter from day 1. She knows my husband as daddy.

So, this girl that my baby daddy is with and his family have put this belief into my baby daddy’s head that our kid is full blown Mexican, and then at one point said she was full white. Wtf. This all starte when I decided to put him on CS. The girlfriend will sit there and post on Facebook that I need to find “lil Jose’s real dad” and anything that has to do with her not looking like she’s mixed. He has even messaged me and said she isn’t his because she looks nothing like his other kids. She won’t because they have different mothers, idiot. I’ve asked ample amount of times for him to sign his rights over, he’s agreed but never shows up to court to get the process started. I don’t want his money and I’ve told him I will take him off of CS and even forgive the back pay of arrears ($17,000). He still will never show up so we can get it done. His girlfriend goes to Facebook to say how I whine and complain and I always make court dates and that I miss this dude. I don’t make the court dates they are already automatically set up. I have NEVER whined nor complained when he decides to show up. The only time he shows up is when he is in jail. Lol.

This man will sit here and tell all the people around him that she isn’t his and wants a DNA test. But, when he messages me on Facebook he asks for pictures and asks how she is doing. He even has her name tattooed big as hell across his forearm. I’ve never bashed him on Facebook or anything on social media. He knows he is her real dad but his family and girlfriend fill his head with bullshit. I am completely fine with him not being in her life cause she doesn’t even know him.

I’m just tired of the drama from his girlfriend. This girl goes to the point of saying my daughter is ugly, and I’m just jealous that her kids look better than my child. Like really??? She stays getting on Facebook talking shit. I mean she’d be quite upset if I sent her screenshots of him in my inbox asking to come to my house to see the child that isn’t his, and asking to see me. But, I’m not gonna make her upset lol. I know he’s a cheater. She also doesn’t know that when they were together that he lied to me and told me they weren’t together anymore and I ended up getting pregnant but had a miscarriage. He used to always text me and say he wanted to be with me and blah blah blah.

Anyways I hope I didn’t waste y’alls time. I just needed to vent. And here’s a pics of my baby girl 💕