So.. I joined this group to get some ideas on ways to spice up me and my bf’s sex life. We don’t really have sex often because I have a low sex drive but the times we do, it’s pretty amazing but still kinda boring. I really like being choked and dominated but I want to try some more. I just don’t know where to start.

I’ve told my bf my fantasies (threesome, him watching me with someone else and then him fucking me better, etc.) but it makes him uncomfortable to think about it. He’s very territorial with me. Doesn’t like the thought of me with someone else.

My bf’s fantasies are more like having sex while he plays video games and what not.

Any advice on what I could do? Any tips? Suggestions?